“Esau ran to meet Jacob and embraced him. . .”
Genesis 33:4
OT Drama
If Jerry Springer was a thing back in the Old Testament, you might find Jacob and Esau hashing out their dysfunctional family dynamics.
Twenty years had passed since Jacob and Esau had seen each other. Back then, Esau had threatened to kill his brother, and Jacob had fled for his life. We can understand that the idea of meeting again made Jacob nervous, especially since Esau came with 400 men.
OT Grace
But while Jacob is afraid and still trying to control the situation, we can see that something has changed in him. He is more humble and realizes that his gift cannot ultimately win Esau’s favor.
Quite possibly, Jacob’s struggles with Laban helped him realize the great wrong he had done to his brother long ago. He now acknowledges that all that he has comes only from God by grace, and he recognizes that he needs grace from Esau if they are to reconcile.
Grace for Relationships
Many of us have strained relationships with family members, friends, or others we have wronged. Perhaps we recognize the need for reconciliation but aren’t sure how to go about it.
But relationships are always by grace. We cannot control how others respond to us; we can only show grace and enjoy the grace shown to us.
God's Grace
In a similar way, our sin has ruined our relationship with God, and no amount of scheming on our part can restore us. But in Christ, we find God's unexpected and merciful embrace.
For this, we can only give thanks and enjoy God’s grace.
Travis Sellers
MD5 Facilitator
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